Tears

Tears , it's a normal creation from God to us . A happy and sad tears will happens when some of us are having any incident in their life . We cant stop for it to happens because it come out by itself and yeah someone will wipe our tears if he/she really cares about us (: Throughout the life time we meet thousands of people that we dont even think of right now or maybe we forgot about them a long time ago can make tears on our cheek . But often in our lives , we meet some "sweet and special" person that makes us think , am I so special ? Often times we dont realize how much a person means to us in life . It's the so called "GOD'S PLAN" that make us in contact with certain people , which changes our life forever and probably when this things happens , we will cry when we think about it . As my story , people say time heals the pain . Yeah time do heals the pain and same as my tears . My tears are always with me whenever I go or think about someone . Despite for my recent break up not just long ago , I honestly stated here that im now feeling much better . I do cry for her because of what have happened but yeah now im feeling much better .

I give myself some time . I prayed , I let my heart heals bit by bit . It wasnt that completely but then again , at least im in a state that is far more better than when it first happened . Reason is , I had friends like you all out there who encourages me to move on even dedicated a blog post for the heartbroken or something related with tears to remind us that it's not the end of the world when one relationship ended . Sometimes , one may wonder why there is someone who just got their heart broken and tears , then found themselves new love in merely a short time ? While there are some people who willingly to spend their lives in years and years alone , mourning for the lost love ? Are people who found new love so fast consider as untruthful , while those who mourned and live alone can be called 'A Hero in the Name of Love' ? Remember , even the character Rose Dawson in Titanic too , married and moved on after the lost of her love .

It's a subjective question that only those who have the heart knows , a really soft heart that cry easily . Why there are some couple was known to have "I hate you , but I love you and I cant live without you" relationship ? Why a couple still willingly to give their relationship another chance even if one of the partner was caught cheating . Love seeks perfection or accepting those flaws and accepted it as it is ? And im telling you guys, no need to make a tears to someone who is not deserve to be with you , but make a tears for someone who make you happy and smile . That is more worth than anything , is a happy tears (: So let me ask you , how long would you want to cry and want to wait your heart heals until you find a new love after the lost one ? 1 month ? 6 months ? 1 year ? 10 years ? Forever ?

It's up to you because love is timeless and tears are just like so worthy , should not ask it to always come out . Therefore , everything from the beginning , is solely from your choice . It's not because of the person who broke your heart and you wanna cry all day long . They had moved on and left us alone , leave us wondering what to do with the pieces because they no longer needed them . So what are you going to do with those pieces ? You will heal , it can be healed , IF you let yourself heal and not heal with tears .

You choose